Why is this important? It's a matter of trust.
Naturally speaking, chickens have difficulty with trust – they approach most things with a healthy amount of fear. If you've ever introduced even a new, unknown treat you'll know how tentatively they approach it.
Fear is a necessary position for chickens to take. They are, after all, top of every predator's menu. The "fight or flight" reaction can be critical to their survival.
But practically speaking, it's important to be able to pick our chickens up to do a full health check, or to administer first aid.
It's important, too, to have confidence that our flock will behave nicely with our children and grandchildren.
And being able to sit with our flock of friendly chickens is not only one of life's pleasures – it can be a great stress reliever.
The trick is getting the balance right. We need to make sure our chickens know they can trust us, whilst maintaining enough suspicion of the world around them to ensure they stay safe from predators.
The purpose of this article is to help everyone, from beginner to the more experienced keeper, know how to raise chickens who are friendly as well as happy and healthy.
Although most chicken breeds can be taught to make friends, some are more adaptable than others. Generally speaking, breeds which are excellent foragers tend to be quite independent and less willing to become reliant on human company.
The Livorno (Leghorn) is a good example of this. They're a good addition to a flock: ultra-reliable egg layers, forage for their own food, keep themselves to themselves and never cause problems within the flock. But they're not curious, not into sitting still, and for the most part don't really enjoy human company.
You'll find a mixture of views about which are the friendliest of breeds. These are my top four, based on my own experience.
1. Silkie: the ultimate fluffy puff-ball chicken, the Silkie is a particularly good choice for young children. Follow the link for more details and places to find Silkie chickens.
2. Buff Orpington: there's a reason why this was Elizabeth, the Queen Mother's favourite breed, and is now one of King Charles' flock. Good egg layers, excellent mothers and a gentle, easygoing personality, they're another good choice for older children – a little on the large size for youngsters to hold.
3. Speckled Sussex: chatty, friendly and spectacular in their feathering, the Speckled Sussex is always part of my flock. If you like a curious chicken who will follow you round all day long, this is the choice for you.
See my Speckled Sussex article for a more detailed view.
4. Red Stars: also known as Golden Comet, Isa Brown and red sex-linked, these are the common brown chicken who are one of the most reliable egg-layers you'll find. They're easy to care for, with funny, curious personalities and one of the most intelligent breeds if you want to train them to come to your call, for example.
My only hesitation in recommending them is that they can become bullies with new additions to the flock. But with people, there's not another like them.
See my article on the Red Star for a more detailed view.
Dolphins and elephants are known to have the best memories of all species – but those of us who have chickens know that theirs isn't bad either!
For chicks raised by a mother hen, their first attachment will, of course, be to her. But where chicks are raised by humans, we become their mother hen. And their first attachment is to us – if we give them enough attention.
So if you want friendly adult chickens, begin their "friendliness training" when they're tiny chicks – as soon as they hatch if you're incubating your own eggs, or when they're delivered if you're ordering from a hatchery or breeder.
It may take longer for adults to become friendly – and some never will. But time and attention is as much the key to building trust and friendship with your adult flock as it is with babies.
As well as giving us companionship, it allows us to check their general health and to spot changes quickly. It's also fun to learn their individual personalities: what they like, what they don't, and what behaviour may be out of character and therefore a warning signal that something's not quite right.
They may not understand every word you say (although sometimes I'm convinced mine do!) but chickens certainly become used to recognising individual human voices.
So getting your flock used to yours from an early age will go a long way to encouraging that friendly relationship.
I was taught to hold chickens properly at a chicken-keeping course held at King Charles' country home, Highgrove House, and run by the UK's Poultry Club.
I've always carried my chickens in this way. It keeps them calm and safe and I'm safe in the knowledge that I'm not harming them.
Never hold a chicken upside down by its legs. It's not necessary, it's painful for them and it can damage their organs.
Older children can be taught to hold chickens properly. Large breeds like the Speckled Sussex can be too heavy for them, depending on age, but starting with a breed like the Silkie, or a bantam chicken, is a good way to teach them the best way of handling their flock.
Very young children will find this more difficult, and can lack the control to be able to hold chickens without grabbing quite roughly or making sudden movements which will startle the bird.
A good way to start is to have the child sitting on the ground with the chicken in their lap, stroking the chicken gently. Again, a few minutes at a time regularly is better than longer but infrequent sessions.
Always supervise younger children holding chickens. Not every chicken wants to be held, and a flapping hen can startle a child and cause panic.
We've already mentioned time and treats as ways of encouraging friendly chickens. But it's important not to overwhelm your flock, either by spending too much time devoted only to them, or by overloading them with treats. Both should be given in moderation.
A great way of finding that moderation without even trying is to spend time adding plants to your coop and run.
Whether you have a large run where you can add a whole array of different flowers and herbs, or a tiny coop where you can add a couple of flower pots to stand outside, it's always a great source of satisfaction, as well as an inexpensive way of providing healthy treats.
Take a look at this short video for inspiration!